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This year, more so than other seasons of Thanksgiving, Gloria was on our minds and in our thoughts as a noisy and rambunctious quorum of alumni from the Gloria Girvan and Loyd Akin school of hard knocks were seen in and around the Vancouver and Vancouver Island regions in late September and early October. Regrettably, we missed the most illustrious among us, the flamboyant Phillip. His place however, was more than ably filled by a little sprite, Princess Maya, our very own Tinker Belle who charmed the leaves off the deciduous trees on Vancouver Island.
In the presence of Mom’s boys, the stories which make the fabric of a family came alive. Photographs spanning nearly 200 years became links integrating Janice and Maya, the newest of the collectivity into the genealogical narratives initiated by Uncle John Thom McKinley Girvan and Gloria Elise Girvan Akin.
Although Gloria left us 15 years ago, her presence has been palpable especially the last couple of weeks. The care and love she gave, the sacrifices that she made on our behalf as well as the genetic stock that she left in each of her boys have added value to the many communities in which her descendants live. And the achievements of her growing tribe bring warmth to her memory.
Beyond the irreconcilable differences which ended Gloria and Lloyd’s union, there must be a postmortem space where differences in life are reconciled. Lloyd as well as Gloria must also feel an immense measure of pride in the people below who continue their legacy.
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Gallery
of
Gloria and Lloyd
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- Paternal grandparents, David and Josephine Girvan
- Family Gathering, New Year’s Day, 1947?
- Lloyd and Gloria Akin
- Leighton, Garry, Lloyd with Robert, Gloria with Richard and Phillip
- In Living Room, Chevrolet St Oshawa, 1959
- At Deanne and Garry’s wedding, 1964: Akin family with Julian Feldman
- Gloria, Garry and Baby Leighton in Jamaica, 1948
- Leighton, Maggie Evans, 1957?Marjorie Allen Garry, Phillip, Gloria and Audrey Allen(?) Oshawa 1957
- L to R: Gloria, Linette, Beryl and Edna
- At Gloria’s funeral ,2003
- At Gloria’s Funeral, 2003
- Front to back: Garry, Taylor, Lauren and Emily, Qualicum Beach, B.C., 2006
- Emily and Deanne, Qualicum Beach, 2006
- Emily, Lauren and Taylor, Vancouver Island, 2006
- Nikki and Ryley, Victoria, B.C.
- Taylor, Ryley, Leighton, Nikki: Back Row, L to R: Garry, Deanne,Emily, Kathie, Lauren, Julie and Richard, 2006
- Emily, Taylor and Lauren Akin Cathedral Grove, Vancouver Island, 2006
- Front row left to right, Emily, Kathie, Lauren, Back row L to R :Julie, Garry, Deanne and Taylor, Vancouver, 2006
- L to R Lauren, Deanne, Garry, Taylor, Victoria B.C.,
- Robert and Garry 2010
- Edwin Encarnacion Holds his Invisible Parrot while Anita and Garry Encourage Edwin
- Deanne Shooting her Husband While Leighton Reads the Bible and Julie Reaches for her Hymn Book
- Richard and Garry, Ladysmith, 2018
- Leighton Julie and Richard with a Surprise visit to see Rob, Janice and Maya at Vancouver Airport
- Group surprise to greet Janice, Rob and Maya at Vancouver Airport
- Leighton meets a Pixie at Vancouver Airport, 2018
- Maya and Anita in Ladysmith
- Deanne, Maya and Anita
- Maya! in a bouquet
- The Mountie and the Lady
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Nicely done, Grama Akin and her kin!